Love is the riskiest business anyone can venture into…
Blessing, a young girl in her early 20s, had been dating her beau for a couple of months, and during the course of the relationship, he filled her ears with promises of a marriage, and that is the song that most women like to hear. They were making baby-steps preparations; preparations that did not reach her father’s doorstep. Anyway, her Man sounded so serious about spending forever with her that she believed him hook, line, and sinker. The relationship was going smoothly, and Blessing was having the best time of her life.
Some days later, the dilapidated phone that Blessing was using broke down completely, and when her knight in shining armor was not forthcoming with even empty promises of changing her phone, and she could not afford a new phone for herself, she became phone-less, and as a result, both of them lost communication for about three days that she was without a phone.
Blessing’s brother decided to step in by surprising her with a brand new phone.
Blessing was over the moon with excitement, and the first thing she did with her phone was to call her boyfriend whom she hadn’t heard from in three days, because she did not have a phone, but he did not pick up. Then she went ahead to download WhatsApp and sent him a message, sharing the exciting news with him, but he did not respond to her messages. Desperate to get in touch with him, Blessing downloaded Facebook app.
The first post Blessing saw on Facebook was her boyfriend’s wedding pictures with another lady.
Blessing broke down in tears, because all the while he was feeding her with promises of marriage, he was making marriage plans with a lady in his church. She was heartbroken and shattered beyond words, but then again, she discovered that the symptoms that she had been experiencing for days were that of pregnancy. For Blessing, that was something that people usually referred to as “Double wahala for dead body.”
She knew she could not keep the baby, so that same day, Blessing got rid of the pregnancy. She spent the next couple of days locked up in her room, crying and licking her wounds. After about four days of staying indoors, crying, starving herself, losing lots of blood, Blessing decided to come out of her room to get some air.
The moment she stepped out, she fell on the ground and fainted.
Blessing woke up in a hospital, and she spent some days there recuperating. After she was discharged, Blessing returned to her room and continued to cry her eyeballs out. Blessing felt betrayed and jilted, and she lost on all sides. This is a man that neither gave her a dime nor bought gifts for her during the period of their relationship, slept with her countless times for free, and got her pregnant using promises of marriage as his gate pass.
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People just lie a lot and it’s so sad…
Only God can help her to move on with her life.
Lying to get one’s way into another person’s life is just terrible.
Just wow… once an unserious man notices all you want is marriage, he uses that as a leverage to get what he wants.
But just three days and he was Married!
Ohhh wow!
He has been planning it way before that time, but he was just playing around with her.
This is so sad. The earlier she know that her cry wouldn’t change anything, the better for her mental health. May God heal Blessing.
If crying would help her release all the pain and hurt, then maybe she should.
This is so sad and disheartening, I pray she heal.
Just as they say (love go stain your white).
Nobody should wear white when falling in love then😂
So sad! I hope she gets support to be able to move on. Love no suppose get brutal 💔
Love is not supposed to be tough.
And love is suppose to be easy 🥺
Hmmmm, but men and women have decided to make it really difficult.
I really hope she gets all the support she needs at this time.
I hope so too.
I really hope she gets all the support she needs at this time
In recent times, this happens more often than not. I hope she doesn’t blame herself for his actions.
Exactly, because it’s not her fault that she fell for his lies.
Most times a lot of youth do fall in the wrong relationship because they try to keep things secret and waiting for it to bloom before everyone should know but things have changed, from the moment affection start to flow please let both of your family to know about the relationship.
Time to use hearts fall in love don pass na brain them dae use now if not na stories that touch the heart go follow
I’m just imagining you as a love therapist🤣🤣
While I condemn her boyfriend’s behaviour, Blessing shouldn’t have killed an innocent child. At that point, engaging family members would have been reasonable.
You really cannot judge or condemn her choice, because she did what came to mind at that time, unfortunately.
Deciet in relationships is on a high rise especially in this present generation. Such stories always happens, but how can we know someone with true intentions.
Almost everyone is getting in with one ulterior motive or the other🤦🏼♀️
Falling in love these days, one really needs to be very careful.. that guy shouldn’t have played with her emotions that way, that was callous.
Really callous…
Moral Lesson:Shine your eyes make you no go fall for pot of soup😂
on a more serious note, people need to stop allowing love block their sense.
I think people should stop being deceitful instead🤷♀️
Use like 23hrs fear men, use the other 1hr to think of how to wicked them. May God heal blessing completely.
You get it!😂
I’m always ready for men o, before you do me 5 wickedness, I don plan like 150 wickedness…. Mtcheew
Their ways are not pure…smh