If you had a friend with whom you have shared long-lasting relationship and closeness with, and you unintentionally said or did something that upset this friend of yours…and you have apologized a couple of times, but he/she is still giving you cold shoulders…
Would you continue to apologize until he/she forgives you or just cut your losses and move on?
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After apologizing severally, and he or she is still acting up. I move on jejely
Hmm, and forfeit years of good friendship?
Yes of course, when e no send your papa? 😁😁
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After apologising genuinely, and there is still cold shoulders, I will let the person be, it will be painful but then, two people have to be involved to make it work.
Yeah, it takes two to tango
Go ghost .
Since I’ve apologized, and the person is still acting up, I cut off. Probably he/she is no longer interested in the friendship.
Everybody go dey alright.
I like to think that it’s not that easy sometimes
Great
I will move on.
Just like that?
I will let him or her be till when he or she is tired
Tired or come around?
We move on but try not to repeat same mistakes with other friends will make.
But what might offend one might not offend another na.
Not every wrong can be corrected by apology but then again a long standing friendship, I think if i am in that position, I will seek another way to get through to that person and win the person back, that’s if the person and friendship is worth it.
Thank you for this!
I’ll go ghost o, as long as I’ve apologized sincerely several times, it is now on the other party because I don’t know what he/she wants more
Hmmmm
Anyone who doesn’t let go any disagreeable opinion or situation is a turn off for me
Yeah, not a good sign
Some relationships are not just easy to let go especially when it’s a long term relationship and when the friend is Avery important person to you. For me, I don’t think I can let go just like that, I’ll think of different ways to make things right and continue with the relationship it it’s worth it
Exactly!!
I would continue apologizing sincerely, but not excessively. Give space and time for healing. If cold shoulders persist, prioritize self-care and re-evaluate the friendship. Forgiveness isn’t always guaranteed, but closure is essential.
Give time and space for healing.
I agree.
I will give the person space and time to heal and if after that, the person isn’t ready to let to go,then I will move on…
This is still valid.
I will cut my losses and jejely moved on