Habibah’s Story Update…
Amidst the emotional, verbal and physical abuse Habibah is passing through in her loveless marriage, and of course numerous advices from all who cared asking her to focus on finishing school before leaving the horrible excuse of a marriage, deep down, she still wants it to work.
All the abuse her husband dishes to her on a platter every single day does not scare Habibah as much as his threat to take another wife.
This character of Habibah is not strange at all, as most Nigerian women complain bitterly about their relationship/marriage but would rather remain in it, in hopes that things will change for the better rather than walking away from it. Anyway, Habibah tells her plight to anyone who cares to listen, including her friend and course mate in school, and just like everybody else, she also gave her own piece of advice.
She recommended that Habibah use Kayanmata; herbs or portions that act as sex or love enhancers for couples, to keep her wandering and abusive husband all to herself. She was assured that the love portion works like magic, as a lot of women have testified of its potency. Desperate now, Habibah accepted.
Talk about going the extra mile to get what you want.
Habibah then followed her friend to the Kayanmata seller. When they got there, the woman explained to Habibah the different levels of the portion, and the higher the portion, the faster the outcome. The exact one the seller assured was Habibah’s solution to her marital problems costs five thousand naira, but even that amount was too much for her. She however made a promise to raise the money as quickly as possible. Due to the urgency of Habibah’s need, the seller alternatively gave her a cheaper portion and directed her on how to use it, pending when she would raise the five thousand naira for the main one. According to the seller, it would keep him from the arms of another woman before the main portion which will permanently seal their love and his commitment to her.
Habibah did exactly as instructed, but merely three days later after she used the Kayanmata on him, her husband informed her about his final decision to take in another wife; the same woman he has been cheating on her with.
Habibah’s heart sank into the pit of her stomach; even the low budget love portion has failed her.
To make matters worse, her husband came through with his words by bringing in the new wife, a widow with three children into their family. He put the new love of his life in one of his rental apartments so that she will not be inconvenienced by the crowd in his main house. Meanwhile, this same man continues to abuse Habibah without remorse or respect, and like the character of a man who recently just took in a second wife, he has completely neglected his entire family to impress his new bride.
Habibah only has to carry on with a sliced heart for as long as she is willing to.
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Wonderful 😳😳😳😳
Going to that length for a useless husband????
Like I will always say, you advising such people to stay in a toxic relationship/marriages is a waste of saliva. Except she advises herself shikena🤷🤷🤷
Honestly…
I feel so sorry for habibah. What is even more saddening is the fact that there are more out there going through much worse abuse…. majority of the people in this country are either Muslims or Christians and in both religion the privilege of marrying was given to man as an act of worship. In that light, it behoves on religious leaders to teach men and women that marriage is sacred and therefore an act of worship and must be treated as such.
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I really feel sorry for her.
I feel sorry for her too
Wow! A widow with three children untop of the abuse. That’s wild!!
And she still wants to secure her “marriage”
Just for Adam
Yeah right
Being in a toxic relationship has ended the life of many.
I don’t think anyone gave Halima the advice she needed and the new wife will one day have her own share of the beating. This days women are the cause of pain of their fellow women, what a pity.
A real pity, because regardless of the situation, most women just want to be “married”
Different kinds of businesses just full ground!😂
I wish her well
Me too…
For how long will she continue in that mess she calls marriage? It’s so sad that keeps enduring “death” in the name of being married.
To Habibah, she has nowhere else to go and so to the best of her knowledge, she’s doing what’s right.
She needs to value and love herself first. She does not feel self-worthy, that’s why she is letting the man walk over her. A shame indeed!
The realization that she deserves better begins when she starts to think highly of herself.
Women!!! You’ll be shocked to see what this “husband” she’s willing to climb mountains and cross oceans for looks like. God abeg!
Unfortunately, it’s usually the ugly-looking poor men that women fight for.
crazy life
Indeed.
Hmmm, too bad.
She’s not being loved at home or she has never experienced any love thing? Her useless husband didn’t just bring a wife o. He brought a widower with three kids. Habeebah is d real “Mrs endurance”. I hope she leaves that marriage
She isn’t loved at home.
You happiness should come first before anything be it husband. You should choose who choose you and walk away form what doesn’t grow you.
Sometimes it’s not always easy for women with little or no option, so they’d rather just stay there than be out in the cold.