What is your take on work/office romance? Is it something you have done or can do?
A supervisor started a relationship with a regular staff in the company where they both work. The relationship was not a secret, as they were often seen by other staff members displaying their love and affection to each other, and doing the PDA thing some couples do.
One time, he went through the girl’s phone and discovered that another male colleague was chatting with her. He became more uncomfortable with their communication when he read some parts of the chat where the male colleague was asking her questions like, “What are you doing with my supervisor? What did you see in him?”
He also went on to advise her to leave her man, the supervisor and date him instead.
The supervisor got upset, of course. He even went as far as transferring this intruder and ‘relationship-wrecker’ to another department. This is because he did not want to set him eyes on him any longer, and there was also the fear of losing her to him.
Unfortunately, none of that was able to sustain the relationship, as it eventually hit the rock.
After the breakup, he told her firmly that he does not want to see her close to him anymore, and ever since, she can no longer come to his department, or even be comfortable whenever she is there, because they are no longer an item.
Barely two weeks after they split, the supervisor entered into another romantic relationship with a female staff, and as his style, he went on to flaunt and show off his ‘new catch‘, making her feel like a queen. He is this type of man that makes people scream “God when?!” by publicly displaying his love for his partner…like holding hands, intimate hugs, perking, etc.
Now that it is glaringly obvious to his ex-lover that that ship has truly sailed, she filed for a complaint against the supervisor, and a panel meeting was held at the organization. According to her, the supervisor borrowed money from her when they were in a relationship, and has not paid any of it back to her. However, she could not state an exact the exact amount that he owed her, because he borrowed the money in small amounts (like 2k, 3k, 1k), and he did it more than twice.
Aside the fact that they are now like cat and rat working in the same organization, his personality has been dragged through the mud, and whether he wants to or not, he will pay her the total amount that she claims he owes her.
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Work romance is usually not advisable, especially if it is between a male superior an a female junior staff. Sometimes when such relationships hit the rocks some women take advantage of it by making all sorts of unfounded claims just to smear the superiors name.
So it’s a no for you then.
Office romance? Hmmmm, quite tough.
I know right?
Personally, I just feel where you work should just be for work, but you know these heart of ours. It will seek love where you strictly warned him against.
I like the last part of this comment😂
It’s something I’ve done and it didn’t end well. I will always tell people don’t shit where you work. work, get paid and go home shikena 🤷🤷🤷
Oh my😂
Romance in the office is similar to romance in campus.
It comes with its benefits and disadvantages.
And the end of the day, just do what works for you.
Also, because you and someone didn’t work out in a relationship doesn’t mean you guys have to be enemies.
This!!📌
Lol…. No comments honestly
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Dating a fellow staff is a no for me. It brings so much disrespect and uncertainty. It will be worst if the person is not matured.
Immaturity is where the problem lies.
It’s not always a good idea but sometimes, it works out for some individuals…
Colleagues, coursemates and Church members relationship may seem like a distraction but some times it leads to a beautiful thing…
You never know where love will find you…
But be open minded when it comes to love…
PS: the supervisor isn’t a man yet, he needs to grow up!
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